That’s Life..

Wah wah wah..

Its actually just starting to sink in..actually being married!

I must say its probably the biggest adjustment I have to make in my life..

Countdown of the biggest changes: -

1. Sharing my space with someone else - Honestly, it may seem like a  small thing, but I’m fiercely protective over my space and privacy, Ahh, my beautiful closet space that was once only mine..having to share my beautiful green bed..hard to give these things up..

2. I’m hard headed, I make my own decision about what I want, and no one can tell me otherwise..Now, I have to ask for permission from hubby!! Susah ni..ish ish ish..

3. Cooking for hubby - I suck and he officially does not like what I cook at all..well, its not Kelantan food..and I’m not from Kelantan so how was I supposed to know rite? Well, have to learn now..

4. Trying to compete with his other priorities - Yes, I am a jealous hot blooded female, and my newest object of jealousy, Blacky..hubby’s new Satria Neo car!! He absolutely dotes on that bloody thing! Black is the new exciting thing I guess,Puan Idza is kinda old news..:-p

5. Hating his affliations - I cannot help but cringe when I know he’s off to his activities with the ‘Association’. Tak suke! He’s off to one right now..leaving wifey at home..Lonely!!! Tapi you have take the good and the bad skali la kot..aduih la

6. I married his massive family! - I’m actually quite excited with this one, sebab my family is quite small.. tapi mmg take adjusting to..I feel..overwhelmed jugakla sometimes..sgt ramai, I still can’t remember all his siblings punya nama..fuhh, brain freeze!

7. Learning the ways of Planet MARS - Yes Planet MARS = Kelantan. Nak blaja kecek ni meme susoh. Am trying my best to be a part of the foreign planet.

Its weird the things you do for love, but marriage takes more than love to work..trust me on that one, so do not take that plunge unless you are really ready..

Cheers to change!

Aries punya firm cuti 5 hari!!!

My firm? = 0 days..

Pastu hubby leave wifey and balik kampung sorang!

So mean!

Hari ni awak kan ada speech, good luck! tapi jangan lupa wifey..!! banyak org perempuan comella kat klantan tu!

Nak kene sambung keje plak ni…

I miss you loads

This old song has been playing in my head.. have to get it out of my system. So i’ll type it here..

I think its a Shima song…

Mereka lihat ku tersenyum

Gembira bagai tiada duka

Begitu indah di pandangan

Tapi hatiku keretakan bagai sinar purnama terang yang terbakar

Setelah aku kau miliki

Mana janjimu yang sejati

Segala bagai kiambang

Zahirnya nampak berkembangan

Akar tak jejak di dasaran

Teguhnya cintamu itu

Jelmaan yang mendatang

Meragut, menggoda, membiar membinasa cinta

Aku di genggaman

Engkau lepaskan kerana memburu khayalanmu

Yang menjanjikan rembulan keribaanmu

Engkau kehancuran

Tidak ku mampu membencimu

Biarpun cuba ku lepaskan

Tapi rantaimu mengunciku

Di kota cinta jelmaanmu

Tidakku rela dibinasa bersama khayalan itu

Wah wah wah…

Lagu rock kapak yang bestla!!!

I am ANNOYED…

Everytime I meet someone since I got married..and this is especially but not exclusively among the Malays (no pun intended), they always ask this question:-

" So, BILA NAK BERANAK?"

WTF? Apa masalahnye ni? I have only been married for 10 days!!!  and itujeke soalan yg boleh tanya? How bout these questions that I highly recommend:-

" Did u like the present I gave you for the wedding?"

"Did i even give you a wedding present?"

"Did I even attend your wedding?"

"Is your husband a jerk?"

"How’s the sex?"

"How’s the honeymoon going?"

"How does it feel marrying a Kelanatanese?"

Tapi kenapa soalan tu jugak diorang tanya? Is it like a major thing to reproduce as soon as one gets joined in marriage?

I dont have issues having babies..I just DO NOT THINK that it is ANYBODY’s BUSINESS but mine and Aries’s. So please stop asking us..and telling us that we should have one as soon as possible ..UNLESS of course , U INTEND ON BABYSITTING every other weekend, which of course is HIGHLY UNLIKELY.

Goodbye and Good riddance.