That’s Life..

I’ve seen so many blogger friends of mine (many who are also my uni and high school friends as well) being harassed with demeaning, malicious comments being left at their blogs.

Its a shocker..and its annoying. In the end, they had to make a choice to make their blog private.

Its such a shame that their experiences can no longer be shared with the rest of the world..mind you, some of my blogger friends are exceptionally good and talented writers..

Freedom of the web..having freedom in cyberspace sometimes lead to abuse I have to say..

I’ve had nasty comments in the past..but I never take it seriously..I mean, why should I bother about these people making comments about me when they don’t even know me? It is, I decided after a while..an absolute waste of my energy and creative resources.

The ‘Ignorance is Bliss’ quote aptly comes to mind. I ignored them and they stopped.. I think these people would want us to take offence, get mad, get angry..whatever it is la kan. So bila aku tak layan..diorang pun boring..

But I suppose, when I really think about it..sometimes what they say tu ade jugak berunsur teguran..yang baik ..I take into consideration dan ambik iktibar..only they say it in the wrong way..but most of the times that is the only way that we perk our heads up and listen..when people give you a shot in the ear!

Fate works in miraculous ways..

I suppose everyone has a right to decide what they want to hear, how they want to be perceived, how their character to be portrayed.

I was facing a whole lot of snide comments from some of the people whom I love dearly about how wrong I was to marry Aries..E-mails, Sms  and phone calls..you name it..I was getting loads even a few days before my big day telling me that all of this is a mistake..

I smiled with tears in my eyes..but I smiled..I cannot blame them..how could I when they do not know anything about ‘us’ ?. How could they? they never even gave Aries a chance. They never gave me a chance.

My life is an open book.. I have nothing to hide..and hence this blog will always be open to friends, lovers, haters, ignorainers (as Eminem would say), fans..whoever thinks my 2 cents worth is something they could read, identify with..whatever..

To all other bloggers, my kindred spirits..stay safe and do whatever it takes to protect it. I respect those who were brave enough to take action and make a difference and take control.

*wink*   

Its just me and Aries these days..

No relatives here.. only in the process of making friends..
*sigh*

Thank god  aku dgn aries mmg private and quiet people. We don’t socialize much.. keep to  ourselves..and I don’t know about him ..but I actually enjoy spending most of our time together..oh yeah..and since we’re broke..we can’t actually go out that much..

So we spend our time relaxing and chilling at home..watching TV and silly DVD’s, talking, cooking (he is a marvelous cook), making silly faces and telling stories..

Actually, thats what we have been doing since we started going out, right up until our wedding day and until now..and I have not been bored

Weeked plans: -

1.    Nak tgk potential rumah nak pindah..want to look for a house nearer to the    
       court and my office but budget is tight;

2.     Maybe pergi market, beli brg nak masak.. he likes buying..you should see how        he gets excited picking the chicken to cook al-maklumla..we don’t have a fridge
       yet;

3.    Cook together;

4.    Window shopping, scouting for things we like for the house and the price.

My life before I met Aries and now? I would say ’subdued’ , ‘peaceful’ and ‘ happy’. Its nice.

* I got a very good friend of mine in trouble. Big trouble..at my previous workplace.. although I think it got blown out of proportion, rather unreasonably I might add. I can’t convey how very sorry I am..and how very unreasonable I think the people are there..I’m glad I am no longer at that place..and I wish you would leave too..You will be happy if you do..I miss you.

Aries, words cannot describe..I get choked up..

I love you.. I really do

Its been a long time since an update..I’ve been neglecting the blog..I know..so here’s updates :-

1. Have now relocated to JB completely;

2. Today is my 3rd day of work at a new firm. SANCO JB branch;

3. 3 portfolios - convey-lit-corp

4. Am not loving the local food - cant really explain it., you have to taste to understand;

5. Hating the drivers here.

6. Everybody apparently says ’sengal’ if they are annoyed much to my annoyance.

During my first week in JB, someone crashed into my darling Kelisa from the back. Takde angin, takde ribut mmg takde sebab munasabah lgsg..we did not brek mengejut pun..you know just driving like normal…tetibe jadik mcmni..mengarutla!

I have seen 4 accidents 4 hari berturut turut dekat kawasan residential area where i live..

Day 1 - Motor dgn krete

Day 2- Motor dgn Van

Day 3 - Motor dgn Motor

Day 4 - Motor dgn Bas

Dahsyatlaaa…memang dah tak larat geleng.

The firm ? - too soon to tell really tapi okla, politik and berpuak puak tu kurang skit.. tak mcm dulu..that at least deserves a sigh of relief.

Masalahnya aku tak reti nak buat conveyancing or corporate ni - and I dont like it..It bores me to death - freezes my brain cells - I am currently uninspired and dispassionate *sigh*. Although I do get a flat screen here *grin*.

7. Rumah kosong sgt - takde pulus nak beli barang

8. I need to buy me some shoes - its a craving eating away at my brain.

Will post pics of the new place here very soon.

I miss KL